Its not that everyday I will see a good old buddy that will
remind me on how exactly I felt 2 1/2 years ago.
Easter Sunday and I just saw him with tears on his eyes,
trying to be strong for his family and for himself. I asked why but he can't
say it and I know once he start to speak up there will be tears and instead of
asking more questions I just tap his arms as a sign of my sympathy. So sad to
know that he lost his father.
I've been there and it will never be the same for him or for
their family but I just remembered my dad when I heard the news and I touched
my tattoo after. It help be through the whole moving-on process and it took
years and I know there's still a little part of me that haven't moved on since
then. I miss my dad every single day.
Once in a while I cry but most days, you have to be strong for
the people around you.
If you haven't lost anyone in your life whether it’s by
death or you just ended-a-relationship situation then I assumed you are still
taking some people for granted.
Loosing some family members makes me appreciate the people
around me because we will never know if today or tomorrow or the next, it will be
their time or if you are going to end a long time relationship with your friend/best
friend/boyfriend/girlfriend so before that day comes appreciate everyone around
you.
Appreciate their little effort, the little time they give you, their hard
work it can be a small or a big one. No matter what be thankful.
Say 'thank you' or hug them and even a little gesture saying
that you appreciate them today or the little things they do. There will be no result today but
you will thank yourself later.
"We each survive in our own way" - Dr. Temperance Brennan | Bones S09E11
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