Bragging. Life . Social Media

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We are going to talk about social media? Again? Yes, even I'm so exhausted on how it affect our daily lives. 

Don't talk like an expert if all you know is Facebook. I can talk anything about social media all day. I'm not an expert to it but I know, so don't talk like you know everything about it. Social media is not just Facebook and I'm happy that I'm improving on how less I'm using it for the past month. I hangout on Twitter and Instagram mostly. 

People are still using Facebook as a main source of gossip even assume more than what was the true meaning of the post. 

If you posted something remember that there will always a reason on why you post it. It can be just for your own pleasure, you bragging whatever it is, posting something that will caught attention because you want to be noticed, you post it because you see someone posting constantly and you want to join the bandwagon, you want people to know or be aware of your greatest hits.

You can't reason out to me that it's just nothing. Come on, I'm not a total idiot to believe you. Even just sharing a post, there will always a reason whether it's just sharing a funny video, a news or a diy video. 

We are all free to share and to say opinions about certain post but please act accordingly. Respect whatever it was posted by someone. If you don't like what you see just continue scrolling or better hide it so you will not see it on your timeline again. Don't use it as a source of your fucking gossip when all you can see is the post and not the real deal. Well sometimes it's a good source of conversation but when it's serious stuff please just don't. Don't post something related to a previous post that you just seen and talking shit on your own comment section, post it somewhere else. Be a grown-up individual and maybe ask personally by sending a private message on why this and that. Do you have any idea on how your personality reflect on whatever you post? 

Some of us just talk on comment section where every single people on your friends list can read it too. You guys look so stupid by posting and just continuing the stupidity by talking on the comment section. Again, it's a reflection of your own and not whatever you are tackling (at least for people who are open minded and for people who are so good that they connect the dots). Geez. Grow up. Oh wait your are a totally grown-up individual. Nice to know you, btw. 

Too bad for people who just want to share an achievement or just want to share a personal realization in life.

Posting something about self is okay but dang if you post because you just want to brag something or just wanted to let the world know about your doing, it's a whole different story. Taking all the credit where you will be praised, obviously but that's just social media. People who know the real deal will not believe everything in it. People still interact with each other we are not living behind cellphones and computers, even without posting people know which is the truth and the lie. 

You can't just rant online and not do anything to change it. Not doing something about it is just adding something on your negativity. If it's just a simple one then for sure you can do something about it but if you can't then that's something else. Just continue ranting for sure it will also make a difference on your side. Geez. 

Also are you aware of the manners of everyone in social media? As well as the language? No? Uh-huh don't ever try to be an "expert" again. 

Manners and Language 

It's probably not a big deal but if people are starting to judge by your post on social media, manners and language are big deal. 

There are keyboard warriors, trolls and just people who just bash anyone most especially a public personality or maybe your neighbors and worst some relative. 

Most people always misinterpret a single post anywhere. If you don't get what was he/she was saying then just don't comment, if you don't get the humor behind it then probably it's not for you, don't waste your time. Mostly people are the opposite they will say more shit even they don't get your point and the humor behind it. Why not just continue scrolling so you will not be able to waste time too? Let save each other and mostly yourself from the worst. 

The language too is very different nowadays. Before there's just "brb" "gtg" now there's a lot that sometimes even me can't get it anymore so I have to search about it but abbreviation is not just the language that I'm talking about. 

The way we do caption and mostly just the humor or any playful words we use. I'm not saying it's wrong it's fun actually because when we post most especially on our own page, we don't f care on whatever they will say whether they get the humor or the sarcasm. The worst is when they misinterpret that and they start to judge you when at the first place they don't get the point.  

Maybe there are 2, 3, 4 or so kind of people on social media and it is always different from one another. Whatever I'm trying to say in here doesn't fit to everyone. 

We don't need to react or like everything that we see on our timeline. Save yourself from stupidity but if you got lots of time in your hands that you will not care if it still morning or night, then do yourself a favor and investigate more by asking privately why this and that. Never ever jump into conclusion. I think we all learned that from science experiments. 

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We can say that I don't f care on what your post, comment or your violent reaction but please consider the people who will be reading it with the same size of your brain or maybe way smaller than yours. Let's lessen the fake news that's been on our feeds everyday. It's not about hiding or not speaking for the truth, it's more on how you will respect other people and yourself too. People who knows the truth will not always waste time being a defender to people who are close minded instead they will do little things for it to be improved or at least give help if it's needed. 

Think before you click, always.