My realization for the past weeks.
This crazy world has been to a lot lately and everyone might
experienced happy times or bad ones.
There are a lot things that I learned for the past years. I
can't mention everything but I think the best one is "learn how to deal
with everything".
We are lucky at some point in life. Think about it, some
people don't have food to eat 3 times a day and you have an extra savings just
for Starbucks or a piece of cake.
I've read so many fictional love stories, mostly focused on
relationship with a partner, friends and family.
Don't judge, you know why? In
every situation, there is a lesson.
Some qoute said, 'don't say anything if you will not say
anything good', 'don't make major decisions when you're angry because you might
regret it'. Something like that, I definitely forgot the right words. Its
actually true, some people mostly on social networking sites, they don't know
everything but they act they know more than you are and I'm just like shaking
my head literally because as if she knows E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G.
Team that fight with all heart are one of the best game to
watch. Sadly, I missed some live.
Some people expect a lot from you and still after you do
everything you can they can still see you so faaaaaar from their expectations.
They do nothing but judge other people without looking what's within the small
picture.
Things that you should have in your pockets are: respect,
trust, confidence, truth, and good vibes.
- Of course you have to respect everyone around you. I'm
sure everyone already encounter a person who don't respect you as a person but
even they disrespected you, just give them some respect they will be sorry for
themselves.
- You can't trust everyone because it's hard to trust people
if they are backstabbing you at the first place. But if you know this person
more than anything and he/she trust you then give it back and you will never
regret it.
- Confidence / Self-esteem the things that are so hard to
gain most especially if people are always pulling and pushing you down. Either
way, don't leave your house without the two. Remember, 'things you do means
something to people' (Gibbs | NCIS). If people will see that you are confident
enough they will be amaze and you will
earn respect from them. Like, I do wear weird stuff as people see that but who
cares, I'm comfortable wearing it and I'm expressing myself as much as I can so
what?! *secret likers* smh
- Truth. Not everyone will believe you but as long as you
know you are telling the truth then leave everything above it. Its hard to
please everyone but if you are telling the truth you will never regret a single
thing. There's a difference in explaining and arguing. Remember that.
- Good vibes. Never ever bring bad vibes. Every now and
then, we needed a breather like a new air or a me-time to some but sometimes
you are the breather for others. This life is so short for us to bring
bad/negative vibes every single day.
Everything is a process. Like blogging, its not like you say
things and the computer will type that for you; taking picture, you have to
press that specific button for it to capture the scenery, your own eyes will
never capture it and put the exact fluffy clouds for other people to see;
wearing a shoes, you have to get it at the shoe rack so you can wear it; going
somewhere, you will not just say abracadabra so you will be on a specific store
in the mall.
There will always be a moment when you wanted to do a happy
dance because you finally ate a pizza that you've been craving for months! :D
Bad hair days will happen once in a while but you can still
change that bad morning into a nice afternoon or night.
Be happy for other people who are doing good despite of
knowing their bad days before.
'Don't get lost in your memory keep your eyes on a new prize'
- Future | Paramore
Missing those long lost people are heart breaking sometimes
There will always be an advantage and disadvantage in life.
One thing that I've learned in my Economics professor (Hi Sir
Paguta!) It can never be both when it comes to need and want, its always need
vs want.
Don't do things that you will regret soon.
Avoid comparing but sometimes, you will be compared to
others. So if you don't want to be compared to others, do good things.
Hugging can release some tension.
'Act according to your age' I've been reading a lot about
this on someone who have a lot of haters because of being showy.
Books have lessons just like movies.
Ziva will be leaving NCIS :(( and its make my heart cry :(
first it was Kate then now Zivaaaaa :( I can't explain this but its too
saaaaaad :( any person be my fan girl buddy for this? I mean a shoulder to cry
on for this heart breaking season of
NCIS??? Well, hopefully this will not be the final season. Geeez. I hate this.
:( September is here, mid September and my favorite series are back!!!
I wish local TV shows are just like in the states but a part
of me don't want that to happen. Hehe.
I want to read ebooks again but I don't know what's stopping
me from reading. (Trivia: my ipod's small screen is one big reason. Apple,
release some new version of iPad mini. Please????)
I started to listen to Tonight Alive after watching their
live/acoustic set from Buzznet. And so far I'm loving it. Amelia is one of my
favorite.
I have a thing for sad songs but not too sad.
I can listen to Ain't It Fun all day. I can listen to Frank
+ Derol 4 songs all day too! And never realize that its just 4 songs. :p
I'll be seeing The Maine next year with pretty Pia and her
friends :))
I miss being lost inside the arena for one night of concert.
I miss Paramore but that's alright they're making other
Parafamily happy. :) daaaaang! Their UK setlist is awesome! I want that live.
Last Hope!!! and I'm thankful for iTunes Festival! :D
I wish I can ask Danny K to meet All Time Low someday.
Roar and Applause are catchy.
Don't compare, we have different situations!
Choose your battle. Some will just waste your time
You're a blessing to someone every single day
Choose the issue you want to be involved
Be humble. Everyone has a weakness. Acceptance is the key
Believe in a reliable source or might as well, do your own
research.
Today is another day.
Rest is a must. Don't work out if you are tired.
Apologizing is a sign of weakness (NCIS) but sometimes you
have to do it but it also depends on what you did if they will accept it.
Sleep when your dead (Gibbs | NCIS)
Mini meal is not good enough for you, go for biggie
People do cry it out for days, weeks, months, some are for
years.
Ha! You think you got a team mate? Think again.
Am I the only one seeing the opposite? The other picture?
Don't do anything if you're hungry, eat first. :)
Some people are really unfair. Karma is on its way.
Be professional. Even people trash talk or worst, act as a
coach. And act as a comish. Don't be bias!
I know what you did there my friend.
Don't pretend.
Why I still miss the people who doesn't care anymore?
I miss being that, its like someone lock that part for me.
That's why little things do matter.
Should everything be balance?
(I may or may not mention the same stuff from my other post. I just don't remember every words/lines that I typed every now and then)
"One time to shout one time to think and I say we start now because death
inspires me like a dog inspires a rabbit"
Tyler Joseph | Twenty One Pilots